One of the hardest things to do after you leave school is keep in touch with your friends. You no longer get to see them every day in class or at lunch. You no longer call each other to solve calculus problems or chat about the Homecoming game. In some cases, like ours, you no longer even live in the same state. So whats the secret to our success?
We chat online several times a week, and we talk on the phone once or twice a month. Actually one of our favorite ways to keep in touch is to write letters, usually on goofy stationery we forgot we had. (Yes, people do still use pen and paper and the US Postal Service.) But even though we tend to rely on hightech methods of communication, the best way to keep in touch is lowest on the tech scale: seeing each face to face and hanging out in person.
Thats exactly what we did last month when Angie came to Cincinnati.
Day 1 started normal enough: Kristan went to work and Angie was dropped off at the airport. Unfortunately, Angies itinerary consisted of a full day of traveling on the worlds smallest planes from Austin to Cleveland, then Cleveland to Dayton. Then there was a delay in Austin, which resulted in the itsy bitsy plane being restarted three times, and Angie began to worry about being late. Ironically, Angie ended up arriving early to Dayton, and Kristan was the one running late.
After a belated but happy reunion at the airport, we drove an hour through the pouring rain back to Kristans office to finish an important project and run it to FedEx. We got to FedEx at 8:58 pm exactly 2 minutes before they would have closed, i.e., exactly 2 minutes before Kristan would have been fired.
Needless to say, we were both happy to go home and relax that night. And with Andy gone on a business trip, we were able to have some quality girl time.
Highlight of the day: The 7th grade sleepover, reminiscing about the past as well as wondering about the future.
Day 2 was a little more relaxing. Angie spent the day getting to know Riley (the puppy) while Kristan was at work. That night Andy came back from Chicago and the three of us had a lovely dinner, followed by an even better dessert.
Highlight of the day: Black Raspberry Chip ice cream from Graeters. Officially Angies favorite thing about Cincinnati.
Kristan used a Personal Day on Friday (Day 3) to spend time with Angie. They took Riley to Eden Park, had dinner at Newport on the Levee think: subdued version of Kemah and walked across the Purple People Bridge from Ohio to Kentucky. Strangely, many of Cincinnatis attractions are actually in Kentucky.
Highlight of the day: An adorable older woman telling us she wished she had a camera to take a picture of the three of us Kristan, Angie and Riley as we sat on a giant swing sculpture in the park.
Day 4 started with an exhausting but exhilarating aerobic dance class at nine in the morning. Afterwards, Angie said, Lets go for a run! and Kristan gave her a look that said, Over my dead body. No, really. Then we drove around East Walnut Hills to look at ridiculous mansion-like houses and take pictures, much like we used to do in Houston.
Highlight of the day: Flailing limbs in the back row of dance class despite Kristans dance lessons and Angies ballroom course.
Day 5 was very food-focused, with waffles, bacon, and strawberries for breakfast at home, and then grocery shopping at Jungle Jims an international market with singing Campbells Soup cans, bumper cars, and other strange novelties. We also did some clothes shopping, but after looking at our receipts, we dont feel like talking about that…
Highlight of the day: Spending half an hour agonizing over which novelty candy bars to get. Lion Bars from Europe, Pocky from Japan, or Sky Bars from (1940s) America?
And finally on Day 6, Angie got to relax at home again, because Kristan had to work and forgot that the art museum is closed on Mondays. Luckily Angie didnt mind, because she got to play with Riley again!
Highlight of the day: Singing off-key and talking about life while driving back to the airport in the PT Party Time Cruiser.
Maybe it wasnt some wild and crazy, Hollywood-style, Thelma and Louise best friend weekend, but we had a good time even without Brad Pitt or getting chased by the police. Our friendship grew stronger, and we know it will continue to grow because of all the effort we put in. And the best part is, in a good friendship, effort doesnt feel like effort at all. Its just fun.
So whether by phone, World Wide Web, postal service, or in person, go keep in touch with a friend. Its totally worth it.